Vera Dijkmans, a 27-year-old model from London, has stirred up significant attention after declaring herself the “world’s most wanted girlfriend.” She boldly shared on social media that she was accepting applications from men interested in dating her, resulting in a flood of 5,000 responses. Despite the overwhelming interest, Vera revealed that only three men met her strict dating criteria, making it clear that the search for love wasn’t as easy as it seemed.
Vera, who has an impressive seven million followers online, shared that her dating expectations were high. She emphasized the importance of men showing respect and taking the initiative. “Women need to have more respect for themselves,” she advised, suggesting that women should set clear boundaries with men. For Vera, a proper date is non-negotiable, which means dinner or an activity that is well-planned. She shared that she would not entertain men who only suggest late-night hangouts or unplanned dates. “If they don’t suggest an impressive first date, I won’t bother going,” Vera said, adding that she expected a gift on the first date, whether it be a thoughtful gesture like flowers or a more lavish present like Louis Vuitton or Hermès items. For her, these gestures show a man’s appreciation for her time and company.
Beyond thoughtful gestures, Vera outlined a series of red flags that women should look out for. She advised women to steer clear of men who text only after 10 p.m. or who exhibit double standards. If a man does not take care of his hygiene or finances, Vera considers it a dealbreaker. She believes that without these fundamental values, a relationship is destined to fail.
Despite her newfound fame, Vera has faced criticism. Some women have accused her of being too superficial in her approach to dating. She recalled an incident with a family member who, after hearing about Vera’s “boyfriend application,” refused to speak with her, calling her actions “disgraceful.” Furthermore, she described a tense encounter with a make-up artist who, upon learning her boyfriend followed Vera on social media, declined to work with her. Though Vera acknowledged this backlash, she also noted the support from other women who admire her confidence.
Vera admitted that attracting men has never been her primary goal in life. While the attention she received was flattering, she has learned that it’s not the most important aspect of her existence. She is content with being single and remains determined to hold out for someone who meets her high standards. Her ideal partner must be intelligent, funny, responsible, and preferably wealthy. Despite her strict criteria, she expressed a desire to remain open to possibilities and is not actively searching at the moment, though she remains picky about the type of man she would date.
Vera’s social media following continues to grow as people remain captivated by her unapologetic approach to dating. She stated, “It felt amazing to have so many men apply to be my boyfriend,” but emphasized that she was not about to settle for less than she deserves. With her public stance on relationships, she’s become a role model for some and a source of controversy for others. Nonetheless, Vera remains committed to staying authentically herself and believes that when the right man comes along, he will meet her high standards without question.
In the end, Vera’s story is a reminder that knowing what you want and holding firm to your standards is key, even when faced with judgment from others. She remains optimistic and confident about finding her ideal partner—on her own terms.
